18. Love Plighting Troth
Then Jonathan and David made a covenant, because he loved him as his own soul. I Samuel 18:3
And Jonathan caused David to swear again, because he loved him; for he loved him as he loved his own soul. I Samuel 20:17
Why so many sermons on Jonah, and so few on Jonathan? Are the cross-grained more worthy of study than the gentle and generous? This noble prince counted it his joy to further the interests of the man who was to be preferred before him. There was something very beautiful in Jonathan, and this came out in his unselfish, magnanimous love of David. How much more beauty is there in the unparalleled love of Jesus to us poor sinners!
I. GREAT LOVE DESIRES TO BIND ITSELF TO THE BELOVED ONE.
"Jonathan and David made a covenant, because he loved him"
- The covenant was made, not so much because of their mutual love, but because Jonathan loved David. "Thy love to me was wonderful, passing the love of women" (2 Sam. 1:26).
1. Jesus bound himself to us by covenant bonds. He undertook the charge of us as our Surety in the covenant of grace.
- He entered into our nature to represent us, thus becoming the second Adam (1 Cor. 15:47).
- He pledged himself to redeem us with the sacrifice of himself. "He loved me, and gave himself for me" (Gal. 2:20).
- He took us into union with himself. "For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones" (Eph. 5:30).
- He has bound up our future lives with his own. "Your life is hid with Christ in God" (Col. 3:3). "Because I live, ye shall live also" (John 14:19) "Father, I will that they also whom thou hast given me be with me where I am" (John 17:24) "Ye in me and I in you" Seven golden words.
- He has made us share in all that he has, changing garments with us, as in this narrative (1 Sam. 18:4).
- He could not come nearer to us, or he would.
- In all these covenant deeds he proves his perfect love.
2. Jesus would have us bound to him on our part: therefore he would, have us,
- Submit ourselves to the saving power of his love.
- Love him for his great love; even as David loved Jonathan.
- Own that we are his by choice, purchase, and power; and do this deliberately and solemnly, as men make a covenant.
- Join ourselves to his people; for he reckons them to be himself.
- Show kindness to all who are his, for his sake; even as David was good to Mephibosheth (2 Sam. 9).
- More and more merge our interests in his, and find our gain in advancing his honor (2 Cor. 5:14-15). "Bound in the bundle of life with the Lord thy God" (1 Sam. 25:29). What an expression! Yet how true!
3. If this be our Lord's desire, shall we not fulfill it?
- Let the bonds be mutual and indissoluble (Song of Sol. 2:16).
- Let us accept the priceless gifts of the Prince, and then give ourselves to him without reserve.
- Let us love him as we love ourselves, for he loved us better than himself (Matt. 27:42).
- Let this be a time of love, a season for renewing our vows, a time of fuller self-merging into Jesus (Gal. 2:20).
II. GREAT LOVE DESIRES RENEWED PLEDGES FROM ITS OBJECT. "Jonathan caused David to swear again"
- Not out of selfishness, but from a sacred jealousy. "The Lord thy God is a jealous God." See also Song of Solomon 8:6.
- It is the only return love can receive. We can love Jesus, we can do no more. "O love the Lord, all ye his saints" (Ps. 31:23).
- It is for our highest benefit. Bound to the horns of the altar we are free. Wedded to Christ we are blessed.
- We are so chill already that we have need to renew the flame of affection with flesh coals of loving communion.
- We are so tempted and assailed that the more solemnly and the more often we renew our vows, the better for us.
- We are most unhappy if drawn aside: every backsliding is misery, Therefore, let us be bound firmly to our Lord.
- Hence he invites us to new pledges (Song of Sol. 9:8).
- Our first surrender was attended with a solemn dedication.
- Our baptism was his own appointed token of our being one with him in his death, burial, and resurrection (Rom. 6:4).
- Our communions should be hallowed renewals of our covenant:
"Let every act of worship be,
Like our espousals, Lord, to thee;
Like the dear hour when from above,
We first received thy pledge of love.
- Our restorations from sickness ought to be remembered with special praise, and we should pay our vows in the presence of the Lord's people (Ps. 116:8, 14).
- Our flesh conditions should be attended with extraordinary devotion. Removal, promotion, marriage, birth of children, death of relatives, etc., are notable seasons for rededication.
- Our times of spiritual revival, when we are full of hearty fellowship with the Lord and his saints, should be new departures.
- Come and let us renew our loves at this good hour.
- Let us get alone, and express our pure desires before our well-beloved, when only he can hear.
- Let us think of some special act of devotion by which to express our affection, and let us carry it out at once. Have we no alabaster box Can we not wash the Beloved's feet, and kiss them with reverent affection
Windows of Agate
A little girl was playing with her doll in a room where her mother was busily engaged in some literary work. When she had finished her writing, she said, "You can come now, Alice, I have done all I want to do this morning" The child ran to her mother, exclaiming, "I am so glad, for I wanted to love you so much." "But I thought you were very happy with dolly." "Yes, mother, I was, but I soon get tired of loving her, for she cannot love me back" "And is that why you love me — because I can love you back? — That is one why, but not the first or best why." "What is the first and best why?" "Because you loved me when I was too little to love you back" Mother's eyes filled with tears as she whispered," We love HIM because HE first loved us."
Lord Brooke was so delighted with the friendship of Sir Philip Sydney that he ordered to be engraved upon his tomb nothing but this, — "Here lies the friend of Sir Philip Sydney."
Christ and the believer that loves him live as if they had but one soul betwixt them. It is not the distance between earth and heaven that can separate them: true love will find out Christ wherever he is. When he was upon the earth, they that loved him kept his company; and now that he is gone to heaven, and out of sight, those that love him are frequently sending up their hearts unto him. And, indeed, they never think themselves intelligent in any thing that is worth the knowing, until they have made their souls much acquainted and familiar with their crucified Savior (1 Cor. 2:2). — The Morning Exercises
"Lovest thou me" "Feed my sheep" It was a tender act on our Lord's part to allow Peter three times to speak his love, and then all the rest of his life to exercise that love by giving him work to do. Jesus, the Friend, asks thrice, and then appoints a token: Peter, out of sincere love, answers thrice, and renders the life-long token. Love is conspicuous on either side.
Saints are to look upon themselves as wholly the Lord's, in opposition to all competitors. The Lord will not divide with rivals; if ye take him these must go. The soul till it comes within the covenant is in a restless case, like a bee going from flower to flower, or a bird from bush to bush; but when it is married to Christ it is settled with him, and breaks its league with all others.
Remember, the covenant ye have entered into is an offensive and defensive league. You are to have common friends and common foes with the Lord. His people must be your people, and his enemies your enemies.
Remember that your ears are bored to the Lord's doorposts, you have opened your mouth to the Lord, and you cannot go back. You must be his without end, and without interruption. It is a laudable practice of saints to go over the bargain again, hold by it, seal it afresh, and evermore look at themselves as the Lord's. There is a backsliding disposition in the best; but a renewal of our covenant is an antidote for this poison. Moreover, he that hath truly made such a covenant has given himself to Christ without reserve, and hath put a blank into the Lord's hand, saying, with Paul, "Lord, what wilt thou have me to do?" This is well-pleasing unto our God. — Thomas Boston
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18.愛的盟約(以愛立誓)
「約拿單愛大衛如同愛自己的性命,就與他結盟。」
——撒母耳記上 18:3
「約拿單因愛大衛如同愛自己的性命,就使他再起誓。」
——撒母耳記上 20:17
為什麼關於約拿的講道那麼多,關於約拿單的卻那麼少?
難道性情乖僻的人,比溫柔慷慨的人更值得研究嗎?
這位高貴的王子,以促成那位將來要被高舉在他之上的人的利益為自己的喜樂。約拿單身上有一種極其美麗的品格,而這美正表現在他對大衛那無私、寬宏的愛上。
然而,耶穌對我們這些貧乏罪人的愛,更是無可比擬、超乎一切的美。
一、偉大的愛,渴望把自己與所愛者緊緊聯合
「約拿單和大衛立約,因為他愛他」
這盟約的成立,與其說是因為彼此相愛,不如說是因為約拿單愛大衛。
「你向我發的愛奇妙非常,過於婦女的愛。」(撒下 1:26)
1.耶穌藉著約,把自己與我們聯合起來
- 祂在恩典之約中,擔當了我們的責任,成為我們的中保。
- 祂進入我們的本性,代表我們,成為末後的亞當(林前 15:47)。
- 祂以捨己為祭,立誓救贖我們:「祂是愛我,為我捨己」(加 2:20)。
- 祂使我們與自己聯合:「我們是祂身上的肢體,是祂的骨、祂的肉」(弗 5:30)。
- 祂把我們未來的生命與祂自己的生命綁在一起:
- 「你們的生命與基督一同藏在神裡面」(西 3:3)
- 「因我活著,你們也要活著」(約 14:19)
- 「父啊,我在哪裡,願你所賜給我的人也同我在那裡」(約 17:24)
- 「你們在我裡面,我也在你們裡面」——七個金句!
- 祂使我們與祂分享一切所有,正如這段記載中所說,彼此交換衣服(撒上 18:4)。
祂再也無法比這更靠近我們了;若可以,祂還願意。
在這一切立約的作為中,祂顯明了完全的愛。
2.耶穌也要我們在自己這一方與祂立約
因此,祂要我們:
- 降服在祂救贖之愛的大能之下;
- 因祂的大愛而愛祂,正如大衛愛約拿單;
- 承認我們屬於祂,是出於揀選、救贖與大能,並且要鄭重、刻意地如此承認,如同人立約一般;
- 聯合於祂的百姓,因為祂把他們看作祂自己;
- 為祂的緣故,善待一切屬祂的人,正如大衛善待米非波設(撒下 9);
- 越來越把我們的利益融入祂的利益中,以推動祂的榮耀為我們的得著(林後 5:14–15)。
「把性命繫在耶和華你神的生命冊上。」(撒上 25:29)
何等的說法!卻又何等真實!
3.既然這是主的心意,我們豈不當回應嗎?
- 讓這聯結成為彼此的、不可解開的(歌 2:16)。
- 接受這位王子無價的恩賜,然後毫無保留地把自己獻給祂。
- 像愛自己一樣愛祂,因為祂愛我們勝過愛自己(太 27:42)。
- 願這成為愛的時刻、更新誓約的季節、
更深把自己融入基督的時候(加 2:20)。
二、偉大的愛,渴望所愛者更新誓言
「約拿單使大衛再起誓」
這並非出於自私,而是出於聖潔的妒愛。
「耶和華你的神是忌邪的神。」(參歌 8:6)
這是愛唯一能得到的回報。
我們能為耶穌做的,只有一件事——愛祂。
「你們要愛耶和華,祂的眾聖民哪!」(詩 31:23)
這也是為了我們最高的益處:
- 被綁在祭壇的角上,我們才是真正自由;
- 與基督成婚,我們才是真正有福。
我們的心已經夠冷淡了,更需要藉著愛的交通,重新點燃感情的火焰。
我們誘惑與攻擊甚多,因此越鄭重、越頻繁地更新誓約,對我們越有益。
一旦偏離主,我們就極其痛苦;每一次退後,都是悲慘。
所以,讓我們緊緊與主相連。
因此,祂邀請我們立新的誓約(歌 8:8)。
- 我們最初的降服,是一次莊嚴的奉獻;
- 我們的洗禮,是祂所設立的記號,表明我們與祂在死、埋葬、復活上成為一體(羅 6:4);
- 我們的聖餐聚會,應當成為更新盟約的聖潔時刻:
「願每一次敬拜,
都像我們的訂婚之時,主啊,歸於你;
像當初從天上,
初次領受你愛的憑據那一刻。」
- 我們從病中得恢復時,當以特別的讚美記念,並在主民面前還所許的願(詩 116:8、14);
- 人生的重要時刻——遷居、升遷、婚姻、兒女出生、親人離世——
都是重新奉獻的良機;
- 屬靈復興、與主和眾聖徒親密相交的時候,
都應成為新的起點。
來吧,就在這美好的時刻,讓我們更新我們的愛。
讓我們獨自與主同在,在只有祂能聽見的地方,傾訴我們純淨的心願。
讓我們思想一個具體的奉獻行動,來表達我們的愛,並立刻付諸實行。
我們沒有玉瓶嗎?
不能為所愛的主洗腳,用敬虔的愛親吻祂嗎?
瑪瑙窗(感人片段)
一個小女孩在房間裡和洋娃娃玩,她的母親正忙於寫作。
母親寫完後說:「愛麗絲,現在可以來了,我今天早上該做的都做完了。」
孩子跑向母親,說:「我好高興,因為我很想愛你。」
母親說:「但我以為你和娃娃玩得很開心。」
「是的,媽媽,但我很快就厭倦愛她了,因為她不能回愛我。」
「那你愛我,是因為我能回愛你嗎?」
「這是原因之一,但不是第一、也不是最好的原因。」
「那第一、最好的原因是什麼?」
「因為你在我還不能回愛你的時候,就已經愛我了。」
母親含著淚低聲說:
「我們愛祂,因為祂先愛我們。」
布魯克勳爵深愛與西德尼爵士的友誼,
他吩咐在自己的墓碑上,只刻一句話:
「這裡安葬著——西德尼爵士的朋友。」
基督與愛祂的信徒,彷彿只有一個靈魂。
天地之遠也不能使他們分離;真愛必定尋見基督。
當祂在地上時,愛祂的人與祂同行;
如今祂在天上,愛祂的人不斷把心送到祂那裡。
他們若未曾使自己的靈魂與那位被釘十字架的救主極其親密,
就不以為自己在任何真正重要的事上有見識(林前 2:2)。
——《晨更講章集》
「你愛我嗎?」——「你餵養我的羊。」
主讓彼得三次表白他的愛,
然後用一生的服事來實踐這愛,
這是何等溫柔的安排!
愛,在主與門徒雙方都顯得何等明亮。
聖徒應當看自己是完全屬於主的,拒絕一切競爭者。
主不與對手分享;若你要祂,其餘的就必須離去。
靈魂在未進入盟約之前,是不安的,
像蜜蜂在花間飛,像鳥在枝間跳;
但一旦與基督成婚,便安定下來,
並與一切其他對象斷絕盟約。
要記得,你所立的約是攻守同盟:
主的朋友必須成為你的朋友,
主的仇敵也必須成為你的仇敵。
要記得,你的耳朵已經鑿在主的門框上,
你已向主開口,就不能回頭。
你必須永遠、毫不間斷地屬於祂。
聖徒常常重溫這筆交易、再次蓋印、
不斷提醒自己:我是屬主的。
最好的信徒也有退後的傾向;
但更新盟約正是對抗這毒素的解藥。
真正立約的人,是毫無保留地把自己交給基督,
把一張空白支票交在主手中,
與保羅同聲說:
「主啊,你要我做什麼?」
這是神所喜悅的。
——湯瑪斯.波士頓(Thomas Boston)
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